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Joshua Raim Kalphat-Lopez

March 5, 1990 - November 10, 2012
Chuluota, Florida

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“I miss you Every Single Moment of Every Single Day, my Beautiful Son...I Dream of you in Heaven and I picture you Smiling and surrounded by more love...Read More » ”
1 of 50 | Posted by: Michelle - Ponce Inlet, FL

“I think of you every day. ”
2 of 50 | Posted by: Brooke - Winter Park, FL

“I miss him, he made my life better. He was my Superman, my friend, my son... There are a lot of things I remember about my son Josh my favorites...Read More » ”
3 of 50 | Posted by: Raim Lopez - Orlando, FL - Father

“Josh changed my life forever. He made me the person that I am today. Without Josh, I would not be so forgiving, open minded, free spirited, and...Read More » ”
4 of 50 | Posted by: Brooke - Winter Park, FL

“I am sorry I never met your rara avis of a son, Michelle. I know in my heart he will be with you always in this plane and will meet again in the next...Read More » ”
5 of 50 | Posted by: Mark Patterson - Williamsburg, VA

“I knew not the family all to well but Joshua will remain an amazing memory for myself and I trust countless others, I met him through Warcraft right...Read More » ”
6 of 50 | Posted by: Colby Bull - Edmonton,AB-CANADA, AK

“If I could use only one word to describe Josh, Indefatigable would be the one. But more to the point, it’s how I would describe his spirit. No...Read More » ”
7 of 50 | Posted by: William Gregory - Ponce Inlet, FL

“Raim and Michele, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. ”
8 of 50 | Posted by: Sue Vogt - Winter Springs, FL

“Michele, My deepest sympathy to you on the loss of your son. My prayers are with you and your family. ”
9 of 50 | Posted by: Regina Duncan - Oviedo, FL

“Dear Michelle, I know that this is a very tough time for you right now, but I trust that your faith will get you through this and any other...Read More » ”
10 of 50 | Posted by: Irwin Hudson - Oviedo, FL

“Dear Michelle: We are all very sad for you loss. We are sending our membership to this link to leave a message and/or to make a donation as you...Read More » ”
11 of 50 | Posted by: Esther Beltran - Orlando, FL

“Riam, I am so sorry for your loss. Josh was a bright and shining star in my gifted class. He will be missed. ”
12 of 50 | Posted by: Mrs. Kathy Craig - oviedo, FL

“We have been thinking of and praying for you and will continue, especially today. We love you all! ”
13 of 50 | Posted by: Will and Amy Gregory

“Josh, We will miss your warm smile and beautiful spirit. You were a part of our family and we cherish the memories of so many adventures...big and...Read More » ”
14 of 50 | Posted by: The Leathermans - Chuluota, FL

“Joshua was so special for so many reasons. He was someone you could talk to for hours without feeling weighed or measured for anything. He so loved...Read More » ”
15 of 50 | Posted by: Marianna Barrett - Orlando

“Joshua was so special for so many reasons. He was someone you could talk to for hours without feeling weighed or measured for anything. He so loved...Read More » ”
16 of 50 | Posted by: Marianna Barrett - Orlando

“Michelle My prayer is that God will hold you up during this very painful and trying time. Grief is a journey is no one ever is prepared for. My...Read More » ”
17 of 50 | Posted by: Angel Rodriguez - oviedo, FL

“Raim...you and your family are in my heart. I will never forget Josh's smile and easy warm ways. What a gift he has been to us all. Much love...Read More » ”
18 of 50 | Posted by: Melissa Swedberg - Orlando

“Michelle & family, We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all. May you find some comfort in all of the...Read More » ”
19 of 50 | Posted by: Toni & Anthony Lupo - Oviedo, FL

“I haven't known what to write...but thought of a story I'd like to share about Josh that has always stood out for me. When Josh was in Middle...Read More » ”
20 of 50 | Posted by: Michelle Josh's Mom - Oviedo, FL

“Michelle and family, my thoughts and prayers continue to be with you. As I read Josh's beautiful obituary, I realized that he led life like all of...Read More » ”
21 of 50 | Posted by: Jeanine Jaehne - Apollo Beach, FL

“Michelle, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless, Christine ”
22 of 50 | Posted by: Christine Allen - STTC Family

“My prayers are with your family. God Bless you all. ”
23 of 50 | Posted by: Zulma Rivera - Orlando, FL

“Dear Kalphat-Lopez Family, My condolences to you and your family. Life does not make sense and losing someone as young and loving as Joshua is...Read More » ”
24 of 50 | Posted by: Sonia Diaz - Orlando, FL

“Michelle and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Eifert family ”
25 of 50 | Posted by: Bonnie Eifert - Oviedo, FL

“Michelle & Family, May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared comfort you now and in the days ahead. Sincerest condelences to you...Read More » ”
26 of 50 | Posted by: Sherrie B. - Orlando, FL

“Words can not express how sorry I am to hear about the loss of Josh. My memories go back to that sweet little boy at Stenstrom Elementary to that...Read More » ”
27 of 50 | Posted by: Marilyn Kirker - Oviedo, FL

“My dearest Joshua, My children and I never knew you, (but I know for sure you know us now :), and I also know without a doubt or without having to...Read More » ”
28 of 50 | Posted by: Lisa Mahfood Gleichman

“Michelle and family, Josh may be taken from us -- however, no one can take away all the love and good time you shared with him -- I hope you are...Read More » ”
29 of 50 | Posted by: Jessie Chen - Orlando, FL

“Michelle, My heart is heavy for you and your family, and the pain of losing Josh. No words can comfort you at this time, but my prayers and...Read More » ”
30 of 50 | Posted by: Rita (Simons) Tejeda - Orlando, FL

“May the love you feel around you help ease the ache in your heart. My condolences. ”
31 of 50 | Posted by: Sandy Dickinson - Oviedo

“Michelle and all your family - My deepest sympathy. To lose such a bright, young life is simply too, too sad. Rejoice in the memories. - Laurel...Read More » ”
32 of 50 | Posted by: Laurel Allender - MD

“Although I never met your beloved Joshua, I know he was a wonderful blessing in your lives. May God comfort you and give you peace. ”
33 of 50 | Posted by: Linda St.Pierre - Oviedo, FL

“Michelle, I am so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine the pain and sadness you must be feeling losing your precious son. My thoughts and...Read More » ”
34 of 50 | Posted by: Angela Chang - Orlando, FL

“Our heartbreak for your family is inexplicable. We surround you all with love and support, and will walk with you and help you through this...Read More » ”
35 of 50 | Posted by: The Lupo Family - Palm Coast, FL

“Michelle, I have no words that can adequately express how bad I feel for your loss. I know how much you love your children and pray that time...Read More » ”
36 of 50 | Posted by: Russ McBride - Orlando, FL

“Words can never adequately express thoughts or feelings at such a tragic waste of a promising young life. My heartfelt sympathy to everyone whose...Read More » ”
37 of 50 | Posted by: Rob Cornick - Bonita, CA

“Michelle, my deepest sympathy to you and your family for your loss. I can't stop thinking about Josh, he was a beautiful person inside and out, very...Read More » ”
38 of 50 | Posted by: Monica Pilato - family friend

“We are so sorry for your profound loss and pray that you find peace and joy in your memories of your beautiful Josh. ”
39 of 50 | Posted by: Molly and Jim Embry - Oviedo, FL

“Dear Raim and Michele, Tom and I are so very sorry for your loss. Our prayers are for your comfort and for Josh's eternal peace with the Heavenly...Read More » ”
40 of 50 | Posted by: Lynda Schulte - Signal Mountain, TN

“Josh, it was always so clear to me how important you felt each and every person in your life was. It was easy to see the love you felt for your...Read More » ”
41 of 50 | Posted by: Stephanie Gregory - Nashville, TN

“My heart is broken for the family and friends of Josh. He was a such a special light to so many people and he will be greatly missed. Michelle and...Read More » ”
42 of 50 | Posted by: Traci Jones - Oviedo, FL - Friend

“It pains me to see you go, and I regret us growing apart. You were one of the best friends I ever had and one of the kindest people I have ever met!...Read More » ”
43 of 50 | Posted by: Steve Jentsch - Oviedo, FL

“Though I had only known Josh a short while, he treated me as if I had known him for years. He was very sweet, kind and funny. He could spark up a...Read More » ”
44 of 50 | Posted by: Leanna Arroyo - Oviedo, FL

“Gone far too soon. It was obvious to us that Josh was a great big brother, quick with a smile, and very loving. We are so very sorry that you have...Read More » ”
45 of 50 | Posted by: Tamera Easterday - Knoxville, TN

“To the Kalphat family, Joshua was a beautiful human being, and he is someone none of us will ever forget. For the rest of forever, he lives on as an...Read More » ”
46 of 50 | Posted by: Hannah Seibel (Rembert) - NC

“I can not believe he is not with us in the physical world anymore. However, heaven gained another angel and he is looking over each and every one of...Read More » ”
47 of 50 | Posted by: Kelly crouch - oviedo, FL

“Josh! Words can't even describe how I feel. Im still in shock, and I keep thinking to myself that this isn't true. You were my Best Friend from the...Read More » ”
48 of 50 | Posted by: Kelsey Malmberg - Winter Springs, FL

“You'll always be dear to my heart, Josh. You always met me with a big smile and an even bigger hug! You spent so much time at my house you were like...Read More » ”
49 of 50 | Posted by: Gail Cekala-Malmberg-Spence - FL

“The entire staff at Baldwin Fairchild Funeral Homes, would like to extend their deepest sympathy during the very difficult time. ”
50 of 50 | Posted by: Baldwin-Fairchild Funeral Home - FL

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At approximately 4:22 PM on Saturday November 10th 2012, Joshua Raim Kalphat-Lopez was taken from us. All that have known Josh understand what a profound loss this is. There were many things about Josh that were quite unique in our time. In the 13th chapter of the 1st Book of Corinthians, the Apostle Paul sets out to describe the effects of love. I use the word "describe" because by its nature, love cannot be adequately defined. It is characterized by action. As my wife insists, "love is a verb… not a noun".
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.　Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.　Love never fails…"
More than most I have met in my lifetime, Josh exercised love seemingly effortlessly. He was always patient and kind with everyone, never vaulting himself above anyone, never envious, and generous beyond his own well-being

To such a loving giving person...our son, brother, grandson, nephew, cousin and friend: Josh was beautiful in ways that were divine blessings. No one could love anyone and everyone so unconditionally from the get go. And always sharing his huge smiles and affirming words with everyone. He loved to laugh and Josh would literally give to anyone who had need...even if it was his last penny. He only ever put out positive energy, love and tolerance in a way most could not comprehend. Josh's family has not only lost a beloved son and brother, cousin, grandchild and great grandson...but the world has lost a rare soul who loved with absolue purity.

In lieu of flowers the family request donation be made to Kalphat Revocable Trust account # 64379756 at Fairwinds Credit Union, 77 Geneva Drive, Oviedo, Florida 32765

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I miss you Every Single Moment of Every Single Day, my Beautiful Son...I Dream of you in Heaven and I picture you Smiling and surrounded by more love than you could possibly every experience here, and I Pray that I can endure the long years ahead without being able to hold you again and hear your beautiful voice. I love how you could make anyone feel like they were so special and wonderful and loved. That was a gift you

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Posted by: Michelle - Ponce Inlet, FL - Mother Jan 29, 2013

I think of you every day.

Posted by: Brooke - Winter Park, FL Jan 21, 2013

I miss him, he made my life better. He was my Superman, my friend, my son... There are a lot of things I remember about my son Josh my favorites are: the way he would look at you with those sparkling eye, his beautiful full of life smile, the tight meaningful hugs and to hear Josh say what's upppppppp... Let me know if you ever experienced any of those. Raim lopez 407-963-8115

Posted by: Raim Lopez - Orlando, FL - Father Dec 24, 2012

Josh changed my life forever. He made me the person that I am today. Without Josh, I would not be so forgiving, open minded, free spirited, and accepting among other things. He was the lighthouse of my Universe for a very long time and he still continues to shine his light on my life. My fondest memories are with Joshua and I know I will never find another person on this Earth like him. He was my first love and

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Posted by: Brooke - Winter Park, FL - first love Dec 06, 2012

I am sorry I never met your rara avis of a son, Michelle. I know in my heart he will be with you always in this plane and will meet again in the next. Stay strong for your loved ones who remain. Talk about Josh as you are doing frequently and often. I was very moved by the video tribute to your remarkable young man. Deepest condolences and hugs to you, and your family.

Posted by: Mark Patterson - Williamsburg, VA - Colleague of Michelle's Dec 03, 2012

I knew not the family all to well but Joshua will remain an amazing memory for myself and I trust countless others, I met him through Warcraft right around when my daughter was born about three years ago

This was supposed to be a joyous and momentous occasion for myself in my life but it was not the greatest point emotionally for me, my spouse at the time was not wanting to be with me and as an 17 year old

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Posted by: Colby Bull - Edmonton,AB-CANADA, AK - A WoW friend Dec 01, 2012

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If I could use only one word to describe Josh, Indefatigable would be the one. But more to the point, it’s how I would describe his spirit. No matter what circumstances prevailed in Josh’s life, he always pressed forward with that loving and gracious charm of which all of us have been the recipients. I’ve seen him face the most blistering emotional circumstance, but keep his bearing even in the fa
ce of disappointment and heartbreak. I remember this past year when he asked me to ride to Bike Week with him. It rained most of our ride there and back. We were soaked to the bone. His bike at that time was a perpetual band aid of duct tape and bailing wire. Periodically, the loose spark plug on his bike would get wet and we would have to pull over to find some dry overhang and wick the water out so that we could continue. He never even hinted of any discouragement, but seemed more concerned that his mechanical issues might be putting a damper on my trip. When we arrived at Daytona, he wanted to engage in the entire “traditional” fan fair. We stopped at a Cigar shop on Speedway Drive, grabbed a couple of stogies, and drove over the bridge to Atlantic Avenue to join in the peloton of bikes that were cruising the strip. We then parked the bikes and strolled along the avenue. He was so happy to be a part of the festivities and his mood was infectious. We grabbed a beer at the one of the local dives along the way and stood on the sidewalk to watch the continual parade of “one off” bikes. We headed back home before dark, and he hugged me and thanked me for joining him.
I’ve seen Josh handle so many similar situations with poise. He never focused on the negative, even when whatever malady befell him was self-inflicted. If some conflict came into his life, and if he felt that he couldn’t resolve it, he would simply not engage. The only time I ever saw him visibly angry was in defense of his mother and me. I’ve heard many stories of how Josh always stood up for the underdog and the outcasts. If he met you, you were his friend. He didn’t compare himself to others and never considered himself better, or that someone wasn’t worthy of his time. He never judged if you were not cool enough, or not smart enough. To him, you were a kindred spirit because you had a pulse. Occasionally, when I would try to pass on my “jewels of wisdom”, Josh would patiently listen to my lecture on any given subject. It would typically end with that coy grin that I had come to realize was a polite way of saying, “Yes, I hear what you are saying, but I’m doing it my way.” And if his way didn’t work so well, he would simply pick himself up and start over. When we last spoke, he had called me to ask my opinion regarding which of two bikes he should buy. I started to tell him that he should consider a car first, but abandoned that tact quickly. I knew he was going to do it his way. So, I provided the information on the pros and cons of each selection. That is not to say that he never listened to sound judgment. When Josh was killed, he was wearing a helmet and protective vest. Unfortunately, the nature of the crash was such that none could have survived it.
I’ve only known Josh for 5 years. But in that time I have seen him grow tremendously as a person and a man. And while his tenacity in attempting to live life on his terms was often frustrating, it also made me respect him all the more. I will miss watching him grow into the man he was becoming. We all will. Someone asked, “How are we supposed to get over this”? We don’t. To do so would mean that he didn’t matter. We will carry the pain of missing him through the rest of our lives. Nonetheless, he has affected us all in such positive ways, that we all are better for knowing him and having him within of our lives. We have all changed. He made a difference to me.

Posted by: William Gregory

- Ponce Inlet, FL - Step Father Nov 23, 2012

Raim and Michele,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Posted by: Sue Vogt - Winter Springs, FL Nov 18, 2012

Michele,

My deepest sympathy to you on the loss of your son. My prayers are with you and your family.

Posted by: Regina Duncan - Oviedo, FL Nov 18, 2012

Dear Michelle,

I know that this is a very tough time for you right now, but I trust that your faith will get you through this and any other challenges that life may send your way.

Remember, you can do all things through Christ, who strengthens you.

God Bless You and your family.

Love Always,

Irwin, Phuong, Olivia & Audrey Hudson

Posted by: Irwin Hudson - Oviedo, FL - Friend of the Family Nov 17, 2012

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I recall a trip to Gainsville. We were riding motorcycles I on the harley and him on his sv600. I went to Tampa earlier in the day and we had set up a meeting point at 75 and the turnpike. From which we would continue to the trip to visit his Girlfriend Chelsea. We left our respective beginnings and I initially caught some rain leaving tampa. I had almost no phone battery and an hour and a half ride till we saw each other. i was wet and pissed. I pulled over right before my phone died, about an hour into my trip; I called him. Of course he didn't answer; he was riding. I sent him a text saying " i have to stop for gas im gonna be running a little later than I should. also i need a bathroom break" my phone died and I never... READ MORE →

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