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John James, founder of The Grief Recovery Institute

John W. James

Founder of The Grief Recovery Institute®
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve

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Russell Friedman, Executive Director of The Grief Recovery Institute

Russell Friedman

Executive Director
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve


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Feeling half-way good, and then plunging down the emotional elevator shaft (Published 2-21-12)

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Back in February, my best friend was killed in a car accident. My heart is broken. I don't feel good about anything. When I do start to feel half-way good for a minute, it hits me again and I feel so sad. I almost seem to shake it, but its tough because I keep wishing I would have been able to say goodbye or something. The same thing happened with my dad, who died on the operating table. Never saying goodbye is so painful, so frustrating. I ask God to let me talk to her. Will it happen?


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    June 2016
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    Boston, MA - June 10-13, 2016
    San Francisco, CA - June 24-27, 2016
    St. Louis, MO - June 24-27, 2016
    Toronto, ON, Canada - June 24-27, 2016

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    Oklahoma City, OK - July 8-11, 2016
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    Atlanta, GA - July 15-18, 2016
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