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John James, founder of The Grief Recovery Institute

John W. James

Founder of The Grief Recovery Institute®
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve

Russell Friedman, Executive Director of The Grief Recovery Institute

Russell Friedman

Executive Director
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve

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When the last interaction between people before one dies, was negative. (Published 6-21-11)


Anonymous from California writes:

My sister-in-law recently passed away. We had a falling out about a year ago. I apologized to her, but she would never accept my apology, or see me again. I am very saddened by her death. My question is how does a person get over this type of loss, when there was no way to reach the person before they passed?

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    October 2016
    Atlanta, GA -October 7-10, 2016
    Bend, OR - October 7-10, 2016
    Rochester, NY - October 7-10, 2016
    Toronto, ON, Canada - October 14-17, 2016
    Scottsdale, AZ - October 14-17, 2016
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    November 2016
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    Los Angeles, CA - November 18-21, 2016
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